Category: LIFESTYLE

There is a distinct feeling that comes from being out of control with your finances. It is a quiet, low-grade anxiety that hums in the background of your life. When your finances are unguided, you spend your time reacting. You react to the unexpected bill, you react to the late fee, and you react to the pressure to keep up with the spending behaviour of your peers. In this state, money feels like a heavy weight. […]

Have you ever thought about how gratitude could be a key part of your financial strategy? Ken Honda calls it “arigato money”, which we could call “thank you” money. When we are children, the very first lessons we learn about social etiquette revolve around two simple phrases: “please” and “thank you.” We are taught that gratitude is the baseline for healthy relationships. Yet, as we grow older and our financial lives become more complex, that fundamental […]

We often look to our investment portfolios for ultimate security. We watch the markets, hoping the numbers will grow large enough to finally give us permission to exhale. This is so common; if you resonate with this, you’re not alone. But relying entirely on a bank balance, risk product or investment portfolio to provide your peace of mind can be a fragile strategy. They’re helpful, but need to remain balanced and in their proper place. There […]

When families who have spent decades building a substantial financial foundation sit down to talk about money, a quiet, often unspoken anxiety usually surfaces. As they look to the future, they worry about the impact their wealth will have on their children. Will the capital empower them to build meaningful lives, or will it remove their ambition and drive? It is a valid fear. The traditional approach to estate planning focuses almost entirely on the legal […]

There is a subtle psychological trap that catches almost every successful person we meet. It is rarely discussed in financial textbooks, but it causes more anxiety than a market crash. It is the phenomenon of the moving finish line. It usually starts early in our careers. We tell ourselves, “I will feel secure when I earn a certain amount,” or “I will finally relax when I have this amount of money in the bank.” But a […]

When we sit down to discuss finances, the natural instinct—is to get straight to work. We want to be productive. Because of this, the conversation almost always begins with a variation of the same well-intentioned question: “How can I help you today?” or “What are your financial goals?” These questions come from a good place. They are rooted in a genuine desire to serve and solve problems. But in the world of lifestyle financial planning, we […]

“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” Whilst this quote by psychologist Abraham Maslow is not usually found in financial textbooks, it certainly belongs in the realm of human potential. We tend to think of our financial lives as a series of big, one-off decisions. We choose a career. We buy a house. We set up a […]

Strong financial plans are crafted with meaningful purpose, not more predictions. If you turn on the financial news or open the business pages, you will see an endless parade of predictions. “Markets set to rally.” “Recession looming.” “Interest rates to pivot.” “The death of the 60/40 portfolio.” Are you following a recipe for stress or success? The financial industry (and many others!) is obsessed with the future. It sells the idea that if we can just […]

When we talk about building financial resilience, we often look at external things. We look at our emergency funds, our insurance policies, and our diversified portfolios. We build fortresses to protect us from the uncertainties of the world. But true resilience—the ability to weather storms and make good decisions under pressure—does not start with your bank balance. It starts with what’s going on in the back your mind. We often assume that our thoughts are just […]

There is a phase in our financial lives that is purely about accumulation. We work hard, we save, and we watch the numbers grow. We are taught that a bigger number equals a better life. But there often comes a point where the goal of “more” stops bringing satisfaction and starts bringing anxiety. We see this often. People spend decades building a fortress of security, only to find themselves trapped inside it. They worry about losing […]